Playful pleasure
for Couples
★ Are you middle-age, kids older or out of the house, and suddenly thinking about your sex life?
★ In a monogamous, loving relationship but sex and intimacy mostly... meh?
★ Is everything else great in your relationship EXCEPT in the bedroom?
You are NOT alone
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15-20% of marriages are sexless (experts define sexless marriages as sex < 10 times per year).
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42% of women and 54% of men are not satisfied with their sex lives in long-term relationships.
The most common causes of sexless marriage include:
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Hurt feelings between partners
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Communication problems
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Being too busy or neglectful
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Health issues and medication side effects
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Lack of understanding about physical intimacy"
"Many couples find discussing sex to be one of the least discussed and most difficult topics in relationships."
Why Does Pleasure & Intimacy Matter?
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"People who have sex less than once a week are less happy than those who have it more frequently."
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"Quadrupling sexual frequency from once a month to once a week boosted happiness as much as having an extra $50,000 in the bank," according to a study by Swedish Behavorial Economists.
"Couples who communicate effectively about sexual desires report higher satisfaction in both sexual and relational lives."
Frontiers in Psychology, 2024
My goal is to help couples gain pleasure and intimacy skills so they have can have more fulfulling relationships.
I work with couples who:
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Are in a loving long term partnership and their sex life is unfulfilling or non-existant
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Get along really well in other areas of life, but intimacy in the bedroom is 5 or less on scale of 10
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Don't know what to ask for or what they want
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Want to gain new skills while exploring edges, desires and experiences together
My role is to:
★ Honor your relationship.
★ Offer trust and a safe container.
★ Relate to the woman as a sister, with love and connection.
★ Share tools, skills & resources.
★ Provide laughter, play and sexy fun.
What if you could feel:
🥳 Excited to go to bed at night
📿 Confident talking about your desires
💋 Desired by your partner
👀 Seen and understood
🤦🏽♀️ Less awkward
😻 Sex is fun!!!
"Physical intimacy promotes communication, reduces stress, and helps people feel heard and understood, regardless of background or beliefs."
Relationship psychology research, 2024
SERVICES
Online
Coaching
Are you in a loving relationship, but ready to have more pleasure, intimacy and fulfillment in your life? Would you like guidance figuring out what you want? I offer a wide permission field and judgement free space to discuss vulnerable topics so you can feel more connected to each other.
(2x month (1)hr online sessions)
3 months 1500
Playful Pleasure Activation
A mutual touch experience; receive guidance on conscious touch and asking for what you want. Allow yourselves the pleasure of my full attention and presence in service to your relationship. Leave with new skills, excitement
and hopefulness.
Recommended for couples seeking support and guidance to increase their intimacy and connection, play with their edges and broaden their experiences.
3HR 3000
"Affectionate touch is associated with decreased anxiety, reduced stress, and measurably increased oxytocin levels on a moment-to-moment basis."
eLife Journal, 2023 (247-participant study)
Erotic Wellness Immersion
Learn the skills and education around pleasure and intimacy that you were never taught. Discover how to be a better lover to yourself, and to each other. Have fun exploring your desires and fantasies. Third session is a co-creation of where both of your desires overlap and can include sacred intimacy with me.
1st Session focuses on Her
2nd Session focuses on Him
3rd Session is a co-creation of desires.
4 Online Permission Coaching Sessions
3+ MONTHs
9900
Due to the deep and profound nature of the work and the intimacy, bravery and vulnerability required, I only work with couples who:
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are already on a spiritual path
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have a trusting relationship with their intuition
I work with all genders, races and sexual orientations.
