COMET

Relationship

what is a comet relationship?

A comet relationship is described in the book, Designer Relationships by Mark Michaels and Patricia Johnson, as a type of connection that is intermittent and intense, like the appearance of a comet.

These relationships are characterized by deep, meaningful encounters that occur sporadically, often when the people involved cross paths due to circumstance or intention.

Comet relationships prioritize quality over quantity of interaction. They are often free of conventional expectations such as constant communication or ongoing commitment.

Instead, they focus on being fully present and creating memorable, enriching experiences during the time spent together.

Once the "comet" passes, both individuals return to their separate lives, carrying the energy and inspiration of the connection with them.

Why Am I Making a Comet Relationship a Service?

In my work with men, I've found that many seek experiences that recharge them emotionally, physically, spiritually, and mentally.

They desire intense, fulfilling connections without the heavy emotional baggage, unrealistic expectations, or long-term commitments often associated with traditional relationships.

A Comet Relationship offers flexibility, depth, and the freedom to evolve, focusing on presence rather than permanence.

This concept resonates deeply with me, as I find joy in sharing deep presence with someone, whether for a few hours or a few days.

True intimacy occurs on multiple levels: mind, body, heart, and soul. The best way to learn and embody this is through practice.

I believe a Comet Relationship with me serves as a beautiful transitional experience for men not yet ready to re-enter traditional partnerships.

Offering Comet Relationships aligns with my purpose of helping people discover pleasure as a path home to themselves.

It activates my passion for creating deep, immersive experiences with interesting and intelligent men who desire me and appreciate my gifts.

Truly, I cannot think of a more exciting way to live my life!

Who is this for?

You’re single, separated or divorced and overwhelmed by or done with the traditional dating scene, but you still crave deep, meaningful connection.

You don’t want to date just for the sake of filling a void, nor do you want to be with women where the exchange feels transactional.

You long for a connection that makes you feel alive again, a type of relationship that sparks your soul.

You want a relationship that gives you more than just physical attraction—something that invites you into a better version of yourself, pushes your edges, broadens your experiences, and also gives you space to handle all your other commitments.

You’re committed to personal growth, improving your emotional intelligence, vulnerability, and overall relationship skills. You are ready to break societal norms about what you thought your life and relationships SHOULD look like.

You’re limited with your time and availability, but have the desire and capacity to give fully and go deeply when timing aligns.

How the Comet Relationship Works:

Our dates will typically be 5 or more hours. Each time we get together for deep purposeful connection, we learn more about each other, deepen our intimacy and create memorable experiences.

We will share a meal, and connect on a physical, emotional and spiritual level. Longer dates (overnights or weekends) will include other activities as well.

My commitment to you is that every time we get together, I will show up in my joy, playfulness, radiance and presence. I will be clear in my desires and boundaries, and offer you my devotion and attention.

A Comet Relationship is based on quality versus quantity of time; it doesn’t require constant communication or everyday presence.

Flexibility and ease are foundational. You are invited to show up as your best self, free from the weight of unnecessary commitments and drama.

My intention is for you to leave every date feeling recharged and nourished from an embodied experience of pleasure, intimacy and connection. And you’ll have learned something about yourself on a physical, emotional and/or spiritual level.

What is Possible?
Literally anything.

One of my superpowers is my range of skills and interests and I love new experiences. No two dates will be the same.

Any combination of the below list (and more) is possible.

I can teach you Tantric practices of sound, breath touch and movement. Rituals and exercises to get you more into your body, attuning to subtle energies.

If you are interested we can explore the profound art of BDSM. I can create scenes of domination and submission, pleasure and pain, or psychological play.

If you desire to experience threesomes or moresomes, I have several priestess friends I can invite to play with us.

If you are curious about psychedelics and plant medicine journeys, facilitated experiences can be arranged.

Feedback I have received from clients and friends

is they feel comfortable doing edgy things when I am present.

You have the option of immersing yourself for a weekend at the Goddess Temple.

What activities do you enjoy that you have been putting off waiting to find someone to do them with?

My range applies to:

Food: I eat everything and I love a fancy restaurant and a delicious food truck.

Travel: I’m an adventurer at heart: I’m at home in cosmopolitan cities and remote off the beaten track locations.

Accommodations: I love a 5 star hotel and camping in beautiful places.

Sports: I love hot yoga, XC skiing, downhill skiing, scuba diving, biking and hiking.

Spas: Sauna/cold plunge and/or fancy spas and massages.

Arts & Theatre: Art museums and Broadway shows inspire me.

Being vs Doing: Cuddling in bed, sitting in a hot tub or cozied up in front of a fireplace.

Reading: Spirituality, consciousness, sacred sexuality and personal growth. (Check out my resources page)

Investing in my Radiance: These are the things I invest in myself; if you would like to treat me I love receiving gifts of clothing, lingerie, massages & fresh flowers. (These are links to my favorite local stores where you can purchase a Gift Certificate for Janelle Orion, feelwildlyalive@proton.me). Or we can go shopping together!

A Comet Relationship with Me is not for you if:

You are in a monogamous relationship and your partner does not know you are seeing practitioners. If that is the case you are invited to experience my Playful Pleasure Activation or Tantra Companion Services.

I am not a sports fan and I am not a big drinker. If those two things are on the top of your list of interests, great; but we are not a fit as a Comet. You are welcome to experience me through my Playful Pleasure Activation or Tantra Companion Services.

Questions You May Have:

We are strangers.
How can you offer a relationship as a service?

What I have discovered about humanity is that genuine intimacy can occur in a very short time between strangers when they are both willing to be present, intentional and vulnerable.

And while a Comet Relationship can, and does, happen between ‘regular’ people, I am a skilled professional; trained in the tantric arts, a professional dominatrix, an intimacy guide and feminine muse.

My permissional field is large and I bring my acceptance and curiosity to fulfilling your desires.

In this way I am offering more than ‘just’ a relationship. I am providing real time feedback, skills and education on intimacy and pleasure to help you become a better lover and partner.

When the spark between us comes to an end, you will have new confidence and skills to bring into your next relationship.

Aren’t you just dating me for my money?

I’m so glad you asked. The short answer is no. I’m not dating you JUST for your money.

I am dating you for your intelligence, curiosity, kindness, respect for women, commitment to personal growth, spirituality, ability to make me think and laugh AND your financial acumen.

In the same way, I hope you are not dating me JUST because I am beautiful and have great boobs.

Rather you are attracted to my body and beauty AND you also desire to be in the presence of my intelligence, joy, curiosity, feminine wisdom, magic, playful spirit, positivity and kindness.

And because you feel bigger, more capable and fulfilled from receiving my devotion and attention.

My time and my radiance are my most valuable resources. My joy cannot be faked. As a result, I am very selective as to who I choose to be in a Comet with.

Is this a personal or professional relationship?

Essentially both. My life is very integrated. I don’t do anything in my personal or professional life that I don’t want to do.

If we are in a Comet, we are in a legitimate relationship. In our case, the energetic exchange includes a financial arrangement which is transparently acknowledged. (I believe every relationship, marriage, dating, etc. has financial expectations, but they are not often clearly stated).

My goal is to have very clean and clear agreements.

I expect to learn and benefit from your lifetime of skills and wisdom, and I commit to availing all of myself; my mind, body and spirit for your personal growth and expansion.

If you are looking for someone to be a plus one for events, I assure you I am presentable to colleagues and family members.

I am comfortable in most environments and, as a podcaster, speaker, writer and Ivy league graduate I can converse on most topics.

I love getting dressed up, and am appreciated for my natural beauty, friendly demeanor and kindness.

are you ready to be my comet?

Are you ready for a relationship that is in ease, expansive, sparks joy and makes you feel alive?

This offering provides a dynamic that thrives on quality over quantity, flexibility over obligation.

And, like a comet, it’s something that shines bright and leaves a lasting impression on your soul, even if it doesn’t last forever.

Donations:

5 hours: Spaciousness for deeper connection. We'll share a meal and a session.

3500

8 hours: A day to escape into pleasure.

5000

Sleepover! 5pm to 11am.

We are off the clock to explore, connect and deepen. Includes two sessions.

7500

Weekend Adventure:

The World is Our Oyster & There's Pleasure to be Explored!

15,000

Are You My Comet? Let's Find Out!

All donations are in exchange for my time and companionship. Anything else that may or may not occur is a matter of personal choice and personal preference between two or more consenting adults of legal age and is not contracted for, nor is it requested to be contracted for in any manner.

"You are intelligent, fun and smoking hot. And I feel comfortable being vulnerable with you. My therapist would be proud of my vulnerability."

D.V.